Career progression is only possible by overcoming the hurdle that is the job interview.
Why does the job interview seem such a barrier? Surely, a 45 minute 1-2-1 talking about one’s own workplace achievements must be easy?
Three psychological traps are the reason why most people fear the recruitment process.
- Humans hate the unknown
For many, job interviews are rare. Career professionals, research shows, only tend to apply for a new role every 3-5 years.
Even during this brief period of active searching, most job seekers only attend 2-3 job interviews.
Comfort comes from routine, and nervousness from the unknown. Attending a job interview activates the flight or fight response, in most cases its ‘flight’ rather than ‘fight’.
Unknown processes, unknown interviewers, unknown interview questions, so many unknowns that the mind reacts like it would to any threat – flight or fight.

2. The spotlight is blinding
Only a small group of people like being in the spotlight.
Most career professionals hate the thought of the focus being fully on them. In the job interview, the spotlight is fully on the job applicant, and shining bright. The interview panel, often 2-3 managers and HR personnel, spends the whole of the job interview fully focused on the interviewee:
Questions are asked, answers are queried, and eyes are focused fully on the applicant.
The number one fear in the world is ‘being the centre of attention’ And the interview is public speaking to a small group of strangers, all eyes are on you.
3. Worthy or worthless
At a psychological level, humans need to feel that they belong. This is because we evolved as a species that survives as a tight-knit group. Tribes survived longer than individuals when we roamed the earth as hunter-gatherers.
At some level humans still have this need to belong and hate the thought of being rejected. In the job interview we naturally think that we are not worthy for the role: others may be better, maybe I’m not as good as I thought I was, have I been faking my ability to do my role?
Will I get rejected if I apply for the advertised position?
This limiting belief of not being good enough claws away at our self-esteem, often resulting in interview answers that lack substance, detail, and enough self-promotion to generate a job offer.
With all the negativity, most people believe its easier to give up (not apply for the job) on job searching rather than going through the pain of having to attend a process that will uncover their weaknesses, resulting in a big rejection – a job decline letter, making them feel worthless.

Master Motivation, Master Job Advancement
The truth is, job motivation is easy to encourage. When motivated and confident, the job application becomes a clear communicator who can talk the talk and walk the walk. They can sell themselves, build rapport, and enjoy the job interview process.
When it comes down to it, the job interview is only a 45-minute process, 5-10 minutes of this is the employer talking about their organisation (to sell the job role/organisation to the applicant). The first interview question is always an open question that is easy to answer, and the final question is normally ‘do you have any questions for us?’
So, out of 45 minutes, it’s really about 30 minutes of the ‘tough’ interview questions.
Tough? Not really, these days the interview questions are based on the job role, ‘do you have experience of doing (task)?’
This makes it easy to predict the interview questions, allowing the career professional to prepare and practice their interview answers.
Practice creates motivation.
It is well documented that familiarity makes a task easier. By practising job interviews with an interview coach, interview AI videos, even by attending public speaking workshops, talking more about yourself, or by practicing the interview questions and answers on your own increases motivation because the process of question/answer becomes familiar.
Speaking improves communication. Sounds silly, I know, but the more someone practices communication, the better their oration skill become. This is key in a job interview as every answer needs to be clear, concise, and to be understood by the interview panel.
Often overlooked, confident communication is powerful in a job interview as helping another person see your version of a story, not their perception, helps you to sell your unique selling point.

In the job interview, there is an additional step to gaining a job offer.
Answering questions confidently isn’t enough to guarantee a successful interview outcome. What is needed is self-promotion. As referred to earlier, the need to avoid rejection is powerful. If a job applicant has low self-esteem, they need to turn this emotion around into something more powerful and useful.
Confidence and motivation are key to interview success. Employers use a structured job interview process where each job interview question is asked to all applicants and answers a scored depending on how they meet the job criteria. An interview answer that ticks all the boxes scores high, whereas an answer or example that seems irrelevant or lacks specifics will always score low.
To self-promote, the candidate must understand the organization, their vision, and the day-to-day duties. This needs detailing: is the organization process-driven or innovative? What specific tasks does the role entail? Is the goal quality, financial, or something else? The more an interviewee understands the brief of the role, the more they can detail how they meet the specific criteria in their interview answers, resulting in a high-scoring application.

To pass a job interview
Get motivated by a strong self-belief that you will succeed
Get familiar with job interviews (through practice)
Get confident in answering interview questions
Get skilled at selling yourself
Get knowledgeable about the job role you are applying for

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